That's what I do too. For example, there's a trio made up of friends that I play with from time to time (we've all played in various bands together over the years). My wife likes the band, as do our friends, so every now & then, we all decide to go to a venue they are playing. I bring minimal equipment and sit in. I get to play with friends, I get to play for my wife & our friends, we have a great time. No need for any money, it's not my gig. If it IS my gig, then I expect to be compensated.Dave Mudgett wrote:Here's how I factor this, except for a benefit that I want to do, for which I would refuse money no matter what:
The issue for me is whether or not I need to book my time and be there. If I have the option to show up or not show up, as in an informal jam or other type of informal gig, then I don't need to get paid. It doesn't matter to me who is making money or whatever. But if I have an obligation to book the time, travel, set up and tear down, and play, then I'm gonna get paid or I stay home.
Right now, I don't do many regular gigs - I'm too busy with my college teaching work. But there are some people with whom I can just show up and play if I feel like it. They have contracted the gigs, they're the ones that have to be there no matter what, and they take the money. Oh, occasionally someone will want to throw me some dough, but I don't expect it and frequently tell them to just skip it.
If I take on a professional obligation, I expect to get paid. Otherwise, not.
Another example, there is a venue at which a friend of mine hosts a local singer-songwriter showcase. Usually, the featured performer will have anywhere from 1-10 other musicians come up and accompany him/her (seriously), on a song or some songs or the entire set... This is a pool of musicians that know & support one another. Only the featured performer gets paid, everyone else just throws in because one day, one of them will be the featured performer and ask the others. It's really kinda beautiful.