Then, Joseph posted this:
I thought this was undoubtedly one of the best posts in the thread, and I felt he had a very valid point as I cannot use them, vs I can use them but choose not to.Joseph Napolitano wrote:I mean no disrespect to anyone's approach , but deciding not to use fingerpicks is different from not being able to use them. It wasn't easy for me to learn how to play with picks but I'm glad I stuck with it. IMHO, I think it's best to learn how to use picks, and then ,if for some reason you choose not to use them, so be it. I know Buddy played without picks for awhile , but he could play with his feet and still sound better than me.
In the same thread, Tom Campbell mentioned "banjo picks" While I am not sure I found the ones he describes, I did find these Old 97's.
while I still cannot "feel the strings" I can at least keep trying long enough to learn. Then I can choose to wear them/or not. As you can see, they fit your finger above the cuticle.. the band is lightly flared but way less than a Dunlop that catches on the strings when I use them. This makes them very comfortable. You can also see the shape of them out of the box fits similar to Jeff Newman's recommendation.
Best of all, they are made by a lady named Judy Townsend who charged me $10 bucks for a set, stamps your initials on the middle finger pick, sends them VERY quickly in a nice little tube. "Miss Judy" did a fabulous job, and I would like to suggest that if you have not been able to wear picks because of the discomfort.. or having the Dunlop band snag on strings.. give her a look at www.old97pick.com
They come in small/large/XL and are German nickel silver. if you see the Little Maggies.. They are the exact same pick, but big bad banjo players did not want a pick with a heart on it called Little Maggie, so she labeled them with a manly Old97 (Which of course are the ones I bought )