What do the words "Country Music" mean to you?
Posted: 7 Dec 2002 1:51 pm
A forty something female friend of mine recently emailed these to me after bugging her for the umpteenth time to come out to hear our band.
New Country an Western Song Titles
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* Get Your Biscuits In The Oven And Your
Buns In The Bed
* Get Your Tongue Outta My Mouth 'Cause I'm
Kissing You Goodbye
* Her Teeth Were Stained, But Her Heart Was Pure
* I Changed Her Oil, She Changed My Life
* I Don't Know Whether To Kill Myself Or Go Bowling
* I Flushed You From The Toilets Of My Heart.
* I Keep Forgettin' I Forgot About You
* I Wanna Whip Your Cow
* I Would Have Wrote You A Letter, But I
Couldn't Spell Yuck
* I'd Rather Have A Bottle In Front Of Me
Than A Frontal Lobotomy
* I've Got The Hungries For Your Love And
I'm Waiting In Your Welfare Line
* If My Nose Were Full of Nickels, I'd Blow
It All On You
* If You Don't Leave Me Alone, I'll Go And
Find Someone Else Who Will
* Mama Get The Hammer (There's A Fly On Papa's Head)
* My John Deere Was Breaking Your Field, While
Your Dear John Was Breaking My Heart
* Pardon Me, I've Got Someone To Kill
* She Got The Gold Mine And I Got The Shaft
* She Made Toothpicks Out Of The Timber Of My Heart
* Thank God And Greyhound She's Gone
* They May Put Me In Prison, But They Can't Stop
My Face From Breakin' Out
* When You Leave Walk Out Backwards, So I'll Think
You're Walking In
* You Can't Have Your Kate And Edith Too
* You Done Tore Out My Heart And Stomped That
Sucker Flat
* You're The Reason Our Kids Are So Ugly”
So laugh and smile. Yes, some of these titles are very funny. But when I’ve asked if they might not like “Country” because the lyrics hit too close to home, I usually am offered a nod of the head or a yes.
Boy, but for the Good Lord, there go I.
I have known the lady that sent me the above song titles for four years now. She is not in any way a vindictive type of person; I know she thinks the world of both Judy and me and would not have sent the email to me except for the fact that this is probably the first time she has ever seen these song titles. I feel that more than likely she sent it to me just for the obvious reasons: that she thought it was cute and I would get a kick out of it. I have seen this message about song titles at least fifteen times over the Internet and yes; I still get a kick out of it.
However, after several different scenarios talking to folks about “Country Music”,
Being a musician for over forty years; after putting on over ten Pedal Steel jams in the Seattle, Tacoma area and talking to many of my fellow musicians and band followers, I got to thinking that there is something drastically wrong here.
My friend will not come to hear our band; the club does not want to advertise us as a “Country” band, and on and on.
I have come to the conclusion that the biggest problem my band and most local “Country” music bands has today is what folks think of when they hear the name “COUNTRY MUSIC”
So the question naturally follows: Why? And what do most folks really think when they hear those words?
I worked on a local Elks club for a little over five years before we got our first booking and he booked us just because of our reputation. The club manager told me that I should not advertise my band as a “Country” band. I told the manager that I didn’t care how they advertised us; just please book us.
I was confident that with the Black River Falls Bands (www.blackriverfallsband.com ) reputation of being one of the longest continuous working “Country” style band in the Pacific Northwest over this past twenty two years, the large variety of music we do, from “Crazy Arms” to “New York, New York” along with “The Boardwalk”, to “Sweet Little Sixteen” and with the following we have, we would bring in enough of a crowd to do a good job for him and make the club money.
After about the third time we worked there, they came out in their own advertising that we were a well liked “Country and Variety” band and were drawing quite a crowd.
The majority of the crowd in the beginning was our band regulars but in the past couple of years we been slowly gaining many of the local club members who love the kind and variety of music we give them.
The last weekend we worked, was the largest crowd ever on both nights. And I stayed home for the first time in my life to take care of my wife. Our own Jimmy Webb, steel picker supreme, took my place and even though the band had a fantastic time, I didn’t even get fired. Maybe I should stay home more often.
The young lady who sent me the email message knows that I have a “Country Music and Variety Band”. I have told her even though we could do old tear jerker country for four or five nights in a row without repeating a single song, (We have three singers in the band); that we do a large variety of music and would not be working unless we mixed it up.
I realize that many folks are just not into music and/or dancing and with the boob tube, sports, VCR’s, DVD’s, Sony PlayStation, etc they don’t often think of going out to a nice dinner to hear some good music, relax and dance the night away or for that matter just come out to relax and enjoy the entertainment.
But, I have a real hard time when it comes to people, like this acquaintance of mine, that will go out to dance the night away at some other venue, whether it be “Blues”, “Pop”, “Rock” or any other kind of music, but they refuse to come out and hear a band---not only our band, but any other band---because they have the word “COUNTRY” in their band name or advertising.
Judy and I, when not working with our band, go to see many different kinds and types of music and bands. We not only go to see what the competition is, but to support these clubs. This includes the animal clubs as well as the public clubs and bars.
There are many bands out there right now and right here in our neck of the woods that advertise themselves as Blues and Jazz bands.
But when Judy and I go to hear what the competition is we find that they are playing mostly fifties and sixties “Country” songs along with ‘Country” rock and maybe one or two more modern Country” songs. They wouldn’t know a blues songs if it bit them. And of the one band around here that advertises itself as a “Blues” only band—what they play is what I call screaming rock and roll from the and seventies and eighties---Max fuzz on almost every song. That kind of means to me that the song is rock no matter what flavor you put on it.
Five times in the past several months I have been into a local club in Spanaway that advertises its music as “Blues & Jazz” at it’s Sunday night jams. The first four Sunday nights were ninety percent “Country Rock”. The fifth Sunday I went in there I was pleasantly surprised to her a band that actually played some blues along with a lot of jazz. Wow, what is this world coming to?
Seems to me that a majority of these so called “Blues” bands have found out that folks do not like the word “Country” because of what they think or feel “Country” music is.
For some reason that word ‘Country” has as many definitions as there are people and hopefully this next part will enlighten some of you.
It is my feeling that when many folks hear the ‘C’ word, the first thing they think of is either old time cowboy or western music from the thirties or forties. Or they think of a band that performs nothing but top forty line dance music or maybe even in this modern world they can go to see a so-called modern “Country” band that plays nothing but top 40 ”Country” which, in my and many other musicians and patron’s opinion, is nothing but warmed over rock and roll.
One friend of mine said he just loves “Country” music. “It just don’t get any better than “Johnny Cash”. Well, I’m sorry, but, in my and many other musician’s minds, most of his songs are more from a Folk or Rural perspective.
Yes, there are bands around here that do mostly fifties and sixties type “Country” music. This is the music that started with Hank Williams, Lefty Frizzle, The Louvin Brothers, and several others, along about nineteen forty nine and up into Connie Smith, Ray Price, George Jones, Merle Haggard, Buck Owens, Wynn Stewart, Loretta Lynn, Hank Thompson, Faron Young, and others into the sixties. Most of these bands play a variety of beats and fifties and sixties “Country Rock” along with it. My God, they even do a waltz occasionally.
Much of this music is called shuffle music. Just exactly what quite a few of the pro road pickers wanted to play when they came back to Nashville and went down to Gabes for a relaxing night of, IMHO, GOOD music. Or at least before Gabes shut down. I don’t know where they go now.
Many of the younger generations have never heard any of these good old shuffles.
Some of them think old “Country” music is “I Love A Rainy Night” by Eddie Rabbit that came out in the late seventies and for them that is old.
One of our top radio stations here in Seattle uses that song and has for ten or more years as their signature Country Standard, but be damned if they’ll play anything from the fifties or sixties.
Maybe that is part of the problem. The vast majority of today’s folks have not heard any good “Country” music. If “I Love A Rainy Night” is an example of old country, or a country standard, then it’s no wonder IMOP “Country Music” has a bad reputation and we are in big trouble.
There are bands that play nothing but “Rural”, “Folk”, and “Old-time Cowboy and Western”---Twenties, thirties, and forties type of music. Jimmy Rogers, Son’s of the pioneers, Gene Autry, Roy Rodgers type of western music. Most of these bands pick at local jam sessions or monthly showcases, but are not much in demand at the local clubs.
There is a band down South of here that plays most of their music with a “Western Swing” flavor. They are an excellent band, but the club owner told them if they played a song newer than 1965 they would be fired. Well, they do perform some songs newer than that, but they definitely have the old time flavor and they play 95% of them with a Western Swing Flavor. They don’t draw much of a crowd either.
So, what do the words “Country Music” really mean to you?? And please let me know your age. It makes quite a difference in perspective.
Some of the responses to this thread will be used in an upcoming article at the www.blackriverfallsband.com website which is the home of the Northwest Country Music Scene Newsletter. This month’s newsletter article is an interview with Judy Kuneman-Giffin, a very well known local singer who has terminal colon cancer and is not expected to live through the month.
This article will also be submitted to a local newspaper that I feel has slammed country music every chance it gets and treats “Country” musicians in general very poorly. This despite the fact that Country is the second most listened to radio after talk radio and has a huge following.
Should I start calling my band the Black River Falls “Blues”, “Variety”, or “Standards” band and try to get the reputation of being mostly “Country” oriented out of it or should I just keep trying to educate folks as to what they are really hearing? If you have some answers, please let me know. I am open to suggestions.
Wally Giffin www.wallyjudy@msn.com www.blackriverfallsband.com