well...since i'm the husband AND guitar player in this video...i can certainly set the record...
amber is NOT rolling her eyes at dicky's playing...she is rolling her eyes at my inability to dial in the eq on the monitors, however...

...i was having a tough day with the sound that day...and i just didn't have the monitors sounding as they should...you can hear the feedback...and see me trying to adjust in between guitar fills and guitar solos...

...at times, amber is also rolling her eyes at herself...she is a perfectionist when it comes to her singing and performance...whether it's the sound or her not feeling like she's hitting the notes the way she wants to...when something doesn't sound good to her...or in tune to her ears, she gets frustrated...as do most good performers...
and it's as dave said...and he knows, since he's amber's other steel player...amber is the consumate professional...i've never had so much fun playing music...and i treasure each time i get to do it...and also...there's alot about a band dynamics that the audience isn't aware of...amber and i constantly are kidding each other on stage...a little teasing, if you will...when we "flub" or something like that...that's part of the fun for us...
anyway...i don't know if that offers any clarity...or makes things even more confusing...ha ha!!!...