In my case I've been playing lapsteel for over 20 years, and have owned a Duesenberg with benders. I didn't start playing pedal steel until last year and I'm 69.I am guessing that the suggestions to get a pedal steel and forget about wasting time with benders are coming from people who already play pedal steel guitars.
But hey, sounds like you have your answer. And it is a good answer for now. Enjoy.