boy did he hit the nail on the head, i play around people who put 3 or 4 notes in ever beat all the way through a song. trying to sing with these kind of players will make you want to quit. they will start at your speed but half way through the song they are going 90 miles an hour . all i can do is stop and look at them , they're like why aren't you singing?????? 
....they just dont get it.... i think the lights are on but nobody is home.......thanks for letting me growl.......jerry